For Children Not Play At The Angry

For Children Not Play At The Angry

Holding the emotion is one of the hardest things people are doing especially small children. Because emotions can not help many people who vent his anger with the physical.

If the minor child has been accustomed to spend his emotions in words or verbal, it is expected that when he becomes an adult individual who does not play at home when she was angry.

Child and adolescent psychologist Alzena Masykouri, MPsi said there are several things you can do to prevent the child so as not to hit when angry.

"In children the important thing is to express that she felt a manner acceptable to the environment," said detikHealth Alzena when contacted on Monday (2/28/2011).

Alzena tells the children this can not happen naturally, but must be assisted by parents and also the people around him. It required training for children.

"This exercise should be performed when the child is in normal condition that is not angry, not upset, not sad or disappointed. Because if practiced when children are angry will useless, just enter and exit the left ear right ear only," he said.

Alzena said there are important things that parents can teach your child about his feelings as follows:

   1. Children are able to recognize the emotions he felt
   2. Children are able to identify feelings and reason
   3. Children are able to vent his emotions in a proper and correct


If a child is hit when angry, then parents can say 'That's his name you get angry and not fitting for the hit. You may cry or scream, but you should not hurt others'.

If a child is very emotional as he said 'I really kesel ma, I want to scream', parents should allow children to scream or cry but give an explanation on the child if he'll shout out should not be upset anymore.

"This exercise can not be instant because children sometimes like to forget and spontaneous, and parents should not retaliate by hitting or scolding," said psychologist psychology Masters graduate of the UI in 2002.

Alzena further tells parents can provide some solutions for the child if he was feeling very upset or very angry for not hitting or hurting other people like:

   1. Took a deep breath just as much as 10 times after that talk
   2. Used alone for some time until he was relieved
   3. Hugged her parents, can be a way hug mama


"Every individual is different, but usually things are looking for is a sense of relief and calm," he added.

Emotions experienced by children should indeed not be muted because children may sad, happy, angry or upset. But parents should provide opportunities for children to vent their emotions in ways appropriate

In addition, parents must be consistent in teaching children, patient and have a heart area of the ocean, because sometimes parents love carried on emotion, although it is commonplace.